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<div align=center><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; COLOR: rgb(213,200,254); FONT-SIZE: 20pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; COLOR: rgb(213,200,254); FONT-SIZE: 20pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; FONT-SIZE: 18pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; FONT-SIZE: 16pt"><font color=#ffffff>“老伴”，真是個令人動容的字眼。內含的，不僅是愛，更是一種不可取締的地位。</font>< /span></span></span></span></div>
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<div align=center><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; COLOR: rgb(213,200,254); FONT-SIZE: 20pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; COLOR: rgb(213,200,254); FONT-SIZE: 20pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; FONT-SIZE: 18pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; FONT-SIZE: 16pt"><font color=#ffffff>從新婚燕爾要修煉到“老伴”這個級別，比從小公務員升到主管職位要難上加難，這裏得有多少包容、承擔、信任、欣賞和忠 誠……</font></span></span></span></span></div>
<div align=center><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; COLOR: rgb(213,200,254); FONT-SIZE: 20pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; COLOR: rgb(213,200,254); FONT-SIZE: 20pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; FONT-SIZE: 18pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; FONT-SIZE: 16pt"><font color=#ffffff>　　<br>當兩人開始互稱“老伴”，夫妻之間才真正進入佳境：你不討厭他的“地中海”、啤酒肚，他只關 心你的“三高”，不再在意你的“三圍”。</font></span></span>< /span></span></div><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; COLOR: rgb(213,200,254); FONT-SIZE: 20pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; COLOR: rgb(213,200,254); FONT-SIZE: 20pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; FONT-SIZE: 18pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 標楷體; FONT-SIZE: 16pt"><font color=#ffffff>
<div align=center><br>許多曾經十分敏感的話題，例如你們前度男（女）友的名字，那曾經令你或他耿耿於懷的“戀愛史”，而今卻不時成為雙方互相逗趣的笑料！</div>
<div align=center><br>幸福的老伴的生活都是相似的：每天在罵罵咧咧爭爭吵吵中迎來陽光燦爛的新一天。</div>
<div align=center><br>說是罵罵咧咧，其實是老伴間特有的打情罵俏。</div>
<div align=center>　　<br>幸福的婚姻是需要經營的，婚姻就像一場探戈，</div>
<div align=center><br>需要有人進、有人退，互相配合，動作默契。</div>
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<div align=center>被踩到腳、絆腳種種，都是十分正常的。</div>
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<div align=center>懂社交舞的都知道，探戈的舞伴是不能臨時拉配的，一般都會有一個固定舞伴，因為探戈特別強調默契。</div>
<div align=center><br>所以婚姻如跳探戈，但婚姻又不同於探戈：</div>
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<div align=center>一場探戈十來分鐘就完了，但凡有什麽矛盾，忍一下就過去了。</div>
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<div align=center>而婚姻這場探戈，卻是要跳一輩子的！</div>
<div align=center><br>所以，光靠忍讓是不行的。忍讓了還要有剖白、溝通，否則，那就永遠只是“舞伴”而修煉不到“老伴”的境界。</div>
<div align=center><br>夫妻有爭執才是正常的，“相敬如賓、舉案齊眉”不是幸福的夫妻，說明沒有思想交鋒、沒有個人觀點。</div>
<div align=center><br>就這樣熱熱鬧鬧爭爭執執了幾十年，到了“老伴”時期越發無顧忌——兩人手拉手逛超市為買什麽要爭， 去散步時誰走得太快誰太慢也要爭，開車時走哪條路往哪拐也要爭……都是老伴了，有什麽話開不了口？</div>
<div align=center><br>就這樣吵吵鬧鬧地一起參加雙方的同學會、退休老同事聚餐，去鍛煉，去參加各種活動，互相陪伴著…… 老伴有點像連體嬰兒——年輕時不斷疾呼不要在婚姻中失去自我，力爭有自己的私人空間，當你們互稱老伴時，覺得唯有拉著老伴的手，才最有安全 感！</div>
<div align=center><br>歌名:《老伴》</div>
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